My daughter, has a classmate, that steals. Just like your daughter.
My daughter is NOT friends with this girl.
AND... that girl's "reputation" is all over the school. Other kids KNOW and the parents.
So, the good kids and parents, do not, interact with this girl nor invite her to anything.
My friends daughter, had her things stolen by this girl too.
If your daughter keeps this up, she will not have... nice/good friends. And the icky kids, will be the one's that friend her. Because they don't see anything 'wrong' with it.
You need to tell her point blank, that everyone KNOWS she steals.
You need to make her... accountable. Take ALL the things she STOLE... and march it right back to the rightful owners... AND to their parents... and APOLOGIZE... in person.
AND if she lies... she needs to be punished for this too.
She is 10 years old.
Tell her point blank, and show her point blank, that this is simply Unacceptable.
AND, she is lucky the others did not call the cops on her.
She needs a reality check.
Stop it now... or she will be a CHRONIC stealer.
Even if child Therapy, is needed.
NO kid or parents, will want to interact with her or be her friend, if she steals. BECAUSE SHE CANNOT BE TRUSTED. At all.
With her current behavior.
That classmate of my daughter that steals... everyone knows. Even the Teachers. No decent kid, wants to be her friend. And the parents, even if they told her parents, they don't get it. They say "she's just a child... kids do this..."
Yah, right.
You need to, punish your daughter, pointedly.
Or she will have no friends, AND when she gets older, what if she 'graduates' to stealing from stores?
Or she gets caught and gets charged, for stealing?
Don't, pussy foot around this.
WHY have you NOT confronted your daughter on this YET????
Gosh.
You need to ground her. AND take away ALL privileges. You TELL her POINT BLANK.... and that her lying... is ALSO a problem. YOU need to tell the Therapist this too... that she lies. And steals.
Do NOT allow her to go to friends' homes.
She cannot be trusted... she steals.
No one, will want to have her around.
Believe me.
I know, because of my daughter's classmate. Her classmate that steals... only has friends, that are JUST like her. The not-so-good-kids... that even the Teachers, know about.
Your DAUGHTER, needs to return EVERYTHING. Not you or Daddy.
HER. TO the child and TO the PARENTS, face to face.