S.D.
Oh my goodness, the poor baby and poor you. I think a probiotic supplement could be helpful. You can get it at the larger HEB's or at Whole Foods - powder form to put in yogurt/milk/water. You might also try baby food/pureed prunes to mix in with things. And just lots of fruit and lots of liquids in general. The whole thermometer thing really scares me (just because it's on the internet most certainly does not mean that it's safe) and I agree with the other poster about watching out for suppositories. It sounds to me like he is scared to poop because he tore - which is perfectly understandable. You need to focus on getting his stool soft so he can have easy bms. This is most affected by diet. If your dr is only giving you medicines and not talking about the foods he eats, you need to get another dr. Hang in there!