13 Yr Olds!!! GIRLS

I would check out the local 4-h clubs, they have a lot of different choices that weren't around when we were younger. Also, check the Rec centers for different classes (ie dance, swimming, sports). About the depression thing. I would keep an eye on it, but I have noticed that at that age, some kids act like this just to get more attention. Its kinda a power thing. So if it is a power thing, make sure she feels like she is in control about what kind of activities she is going to get in to. Another idea is you could have her invite a "friend" and her mother out to lunch. That way she is getting to know her friend better without having to be completely in control of the situation. It may get the ball rolling. hope this helps

See what may intrest her. Sports and Rec. always has classes in many things (from arts - sicence, and all different sports) they are usually pretty cheap and run for about 8 weeks at a time, which should allow her several options to find what she will like. And help her feel like she is accomplishing something or at least something that she can do that will allow her to go to when she is feeling a bit down. I know at that age dance and piano really helped me it was something I could put my whole being into and escape from my worries. Karate has been a great resourse for my daughter and she loves it so much most of our family joined including my husband and I. It has been fun to do something like this as a family plus it has really helped build up my own self-esteem. And then when the boys start coming around we don't need to worry as much because we know she can kick their butts! LOL
Good luck to you!
B.

When I was younger, my mom got together with a group of moms who had girls the same age & they put together their own 4H group. Each mom would take a turn sharing interests-my mom made jam with us, another mom showed us how to care for our fingernails, another mom had a sewing project etc... This may be a great way for you to get involved & put together something with her that may be revolving around her interests and yours. Great mom & daughter bonding time. :)

At the end of the year we had a big get together & all brought something to share that we had made- that was fun too. :) Best of luck.

J.,
Have you tried the Girl Scouts?
It's been awhile, but I believe this would be a great way.

http://www.girlscouts.org/program

http://www.gsutah.org/index_flash.php
http://www.gsutah.org/programs/calendar.php?

Let me know if this works for you.

With Joy, C.