M. -
Sounds like he has fluid in his ears. Does he have allergies? You might want to take him in for tests if you're not sure. I had the same feeling recently at the end of a cold. It's very aggravating. It sounds like his eustachian tubes are not doing their job for some reason. An ear, nose, and throat doc should be able to help figure out why. They can put tubes in his ears to allow the fluid to drain, but you might be able to find less invasive ways to help, too. A good craniosacral practitioner should be able to assist his ears in draining. I had one do that for me, and, while she couldn't fix them completely (I was still pretty congested from the cold), she made them feel much better. I've seen an acupuncturist who practices both in SF and Oakland who, among many other things, did an excellent job getting sinuses to drain. I'm guessing he could do the same with ears, but I never had to ask so I'm not sure. His name is W. Jumbe Allen. I'm not sure I'm spelling his last name correctly. He practices (or did about five years ago) at Chinese Medicine Works in SF. I've heard about kits at drug stores for getting fluid out of ears but don't know whether they're recommended. Also, I've heard that a good herbal store (such as Scarlet Sage in the Mission district in SF) have remedies to help w/ fluid in the ears. I would just make sure a doc looks in his ears first (if you haven't already) before proceeding with any alternative remedies, just so you know for sure that he does not have ear infections. It sounds like he might have allergies (can lead to fluid in ears) and/or a structural abnormality that is preventing his ears from draining effectively, and an ENT could tell you if the latter is the case and what your options are for fixing something like that. I highly recommend a combination of seeing an ENT doc for a diagnosis and long-term plan and going for craniosacral work/acupuncture for immediate relief. I hope your son feels better soon!
K.