First of all im sending you a great big {{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}!!! I know where you guys are coming from, i used to be that 15 year old, except i started back when i was 12, and didnt stop till i meet my husband almost 6 years ago (im almost 25 now), but i was worse than your daughter, i did drugs, had sex with just about any guy, just because i could and i knew if my parents found out it would hurt them and that is what i was after to hurt them, i skipped school all the time, i drank all the time, smoked, anything and everything i could do i did, snuck out at night, snuck people in, if i was told not to do something i did it, i just did complete oppisite of what i was told. I know that for me i acted this way because of my parents, my dad was never around (no my parents were not divorced and im not to sure if it would have been the same or not) he went to work before we got up, came home after we went to bed, and most weekends he was gone, only time i got to spend time with him was during hunting season, or maybe if he was home working on a car (hes a mechanic). I dont know if this is what made my mom crazy or what, but my parents had 4 kids (and i dont mean anything by saying this about anyone else just my parents), and i think for them that was too many, they had too many kids and not enough attention for them, they picked fav. and my dad picked me (sometimes) but it didnt do any good when he wasnt home, cause my mom went crazy on me all the time (my grandma said she thought this was because of the relationship between me and my dad, not like that just that he spent time with me). Im not saying that your relationship is anything like this, im just saying maybe there is something going on she thinks she cant talk to you about, because you might get mad or something. I know when my mom found out about me skipping classes so much, she threatened to take me to school everyday and hold my hand the whole time, and go to all my classes with me (in our school it was called parent shadowing), it made me quit for a while and go to my classes, until things settled down then i would start ditching again. as far as the cell phone punishment i dont think it is harsh at all (now) but back then i would have thought you were "killing" me LOL!! I didnt have a cell phone until my junior and senior years and the only reason i had that then was because 1 i lived with my grandparents by then, and 2 i had to travel so far to go to my school. I didnt die from not having a cell phone, she wont either, ohh and if you do plan on keeping her off of it for two weeks, either take it to work with you and hide it, or take the battery out and take it with you to work, or have a friend of yours keep it, somewhere she wont be able to find it, just not in your house, because she will find it eventually trust me, we always find it, no matter where you hide it!!!!!! Ohh one more thing, maybe have her talk to a counseler (sp?) not one from school, it may be harder to talk to someone she knows then someone she doesnt. Good Luck and one more {{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}, hang in there, she will out grow this stage eventually.