J.L.
Hi M., you are right not to want to put her in your bed, that will be a habit that would be hard to break, You can try putting a fish aquarium in her room, put a blue light in the cover of the aquarium, our 3 kids had aquireums intheir rooms, I'm 51 so my kids are grown, but a friends of mine's pediatrian gave her that idea over 29 years ago, and not only did her son, love it biut it looked nice in the room, the ped said told her that if her son wakes up and watches the fish in the water with blue light it would calm himand relax him, and it did, I put one in mt first sons room as a night light, and then my second son came along and they shared a room, andthen when my daughter was born we put one in her room as well. also if she is still in the crib, put a cup of water in the corner, sometimes they wak up cause they are thirsty and they se the cup take a drink and go back to sleep, the last part of my advice is don't go in the room each night she wakes up, becasue that will be come habit forming as well, and then she will automaticaly wake up each night. Hope this helps. J. L.