Both of my kids got saving bonds for their first birthdays. I also asked for gift certificates to clothes stores, so when they needed clothes I could go buy them. When I did buy them, I would always send a picture of them with another little thank you note. 1 year olds don't really remember the party and gifts, so like another mom said get them somthing they can use down the line. Another thing I like to do for gifts is get "diappearing" gifts. Things like, soap, lotions, toothpaste, bubble bath, snacks, all this stuff will disappear when used:) It is kind of fun filling a "grab" bag of stuff. And of course, get a smash cake for your little man :)