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I would try to make it a positive experience by giving her a sticker or a treat everytime she does poop. Maybe put some cheerios in the toilet and tell her it's a game to try to sink the cheerios so she can get relaxed going to the bathroom. You might try blowing bubbles with her while she's on the toilet. That way if she goes poop she sees it as a fun experience. I would also make sure that you let her know that the bubble blowing is only if she goes poop. So she will try to poop. Boudreaux's butt paste is the best as far as diaper rashes or chaffing goes. Good luck and hang in there.