S.W.
It's time to put up with the screaming otherwise you will have $500 or more in dental work.
My grandson had this happen and they had to pull his baby teeth on the top which took the normal time to come in and a gap was in his mouth. I had told my son and wife NOT to let the child have the bottle at night or it would create "toddler root" (the old words for it). Needless to say when he told me what had happened I was livid but then it is their child not mine to deal with and to take care of. He has beautiful teeth now but it wasn't always that way.
So please let her scream, get some earplugs and give her water. She'll get the hint.
Good luck to you.
The other S.