C.P.
1. it is common to experience decreased libido when taking antidepressants. sometimes you need to try a different kind or change the dosage. mostly, I find that using an arousal balm is the best answer. your ob/gyn can prescribe one, but it probably won't be covered by insurance, so I usually recommend an over the counter version.
2. yes! and I'm waiting until after baby #2 (hopefully, someday!) until I have them removed because I hear that it's worse than childbirth. I believe it!
3. an acquaintance can help with this. I am e-mailing her to find out and will get back with you :0)