Dear T.,
You have a right to be concerned but do try to take the sono information in stride. To avoid malpractice the doctor would have definitely ordered a fetal C-SCAN if he felt there was a possible anomaly that needed interpretation.
When I was 7 months pregnant the sono showed a gap in my daughters developing cerebellum, they immediately ordered a fetal cat scan and scared the hell out of us , saying that the gap in her brain was going to cause retardation and developmental delays as well as facial disfigurement. We were shocked, sad and furthermnore the next sono the technician informed us that the thigh bones or femurs were very short. For the rest of the pregnancy we spent our time preparing ourselves for the worst. (I had already given birth to a very severely affected child with cerebral palsy with my ex-husband 11 years prior) It was hell.
But... after our child was born lo and behold her newborn C-Scan showed only very slight variation and they then told us to expect her to live a very normal life.HA! We felt like we won the lottery, but finally the neonatologist let us in on a little secret...those sonos are frequently miscontrued even by technicians because they are viewing a developing child, therefore parts of the body sometimes need to catch up and any bigmouth tech can strike a parent with abject horror and doubt.
If what I say doesn't bring you any relief I understand, you may need to seek a second opinion, you can always do that.
I wish you the very best for you and your baby, sister!
T.