our son was in a traditional school setting til a few years ago, when his educational needs were STILL not being met. our family has made some sacrifices that were needed in order to give home education a try. but, the dedication we've extended towards my son's educational, social, & emotional "wellness" has been well worth every moment of our time.
you'll be disappointed if you choose to home school from an assumption your child would not hear certain words or not be exposed to particular situations as he/she would in a typical school environment. initially, i was very nervous about the strange vision i had of the strange world called "home schooling" & certainly had an unrealistic & unsettling perception of home education. for starters, most home schoolers are NOT sheltered (as i 1st thought) in many cases they are actually exposed to more opportunities for various educational & life experiences, as well as exposure, understanding, & appreciation to the many diversities among our society & community. my son still deals with real life challenges & typical childhood issues, fortunately i'm usually near by for guidance & i'm also more aware of topics needing further discussion before things may become an "issue"- versus my child being inappropriately guided by various members of a large peer group that he would share a large part of his day-5 days a week.
i was quite surprised at the enormous number of opportunities in our area for home schoolers (outside of our home!). the priceless life experiences, classes, activities, support, & limitless options in curriculum can be overwhelming at first but, also very exciting & encouraging as you continue moving forward.
costwise-it can be surprisingly affordable if you choose to dig your heels in & not fearful of being resourceful. the more you look into curriculum online & reach out among the home school community you will be more than prepared with top notch curriculum options that you can customize, picking & choosing what best fits your child's individual child's needs & what speaks best to his/her individual style of learning. just like many other things, it can be as expensive as you allow it to be, if that's your choosing.
there's countless groups available for family support & many groups also offer regular ongoing opportunities that include structured & unstructured activities for kids. of course, some optional classes & field trips will cost money - but, there's still many things offered at no or little cost that allows positive social interaction.
yes...it is a big commitment but, in our situation the positives have certainly outweighed any negatives.as i mentioned, our decision was based off my son's educational needs...but, we've been pleased with the MANY advantages to home schooling our son beyond our original motivation. the fact we've chosen to home school hasn't changed our family much, other than my son's likes learning again, self motivated & more independent, his standardized test scores are amazing, he's no longer limited to learn within 4 walls, he interacts extremely well with children of all ages & adults, and is more self aware of right & wrong. i guess i could also add that it he seems to be more civilized versus "socialized" since we changed his day to day environment.
i get a kick out of people that think they must be in a traditional school setting to be socially adapt kids that are exposed to "real" life & "real" life issues. i have been pleasantly surprised at how typical & normal my son is & not a "weird" home school kid that i find many people assume ALL home school kids (& families) must be. it's also been shocking to discover the number of FORMER public school teachers, who have chosen to home school their own kids. Honestly, some of these formal/trained Teachers have opted to home school their own children because of socialization concerns among kids in many typical school settings-how ironic!
i must say home schooling isn't for everyone, though. it isn't always as beneficial or as positive for all kids/families as it has been for us-you have to WANT to make it work, have a clear motivation for your decision, be invested in the decision with reasonable expectations, & more than anything...it has to be "working" for all of you-the teaching parent, the child/student, and the family dynamics in general. there's nothing wrong with a traditional school environment if it is working for your child. there's many wonderful & caring teachers available to our kids in schools. consider most of us that were not home schooled still turned out a-ok & became successful, competant members of society with beautiful families. that said, be sure you've inquired & encouraged a lot of open communication to have the best understanding possible why home schooling MAY be a good option at this point in your child's education & personal well being.
you are certainly off to a good start by asking questions, seeking more information to consider, & being open for all kinds of feedback. wherever your heart guides you, i wish you & your family the very best!