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Hi Kristy,
First of all, try not to worry so much, as it seems this disorder is frequently associated with the pregnancy. It happened to me too, 2 mos after my daughter was born, and I find myself 100% in your story (including the desperation part). I have tried almost everything, but no results. Finally I found a smart dermatologist, he put me on Accutane, and 2 mos later I had my face back. No side effects (maybe a litlle dryness) and no other problems. I'm telling you this because this drug is considered having many possible and bad side effects. My doctor told me that he had never had before a bad experience with any of his patients. You should have some blood tests done before (as required). Another important issue, if you really love your face: you HAVE to change your cosmetic "habits" (use a face scrub at least 2 times a week, use only oil-free and non-clogging pores cosmetics, find a really good moisturizer. I can reccommend you ROC products, a french dermo-cosmetic line especially designed to treat a wide range of disorders).
Hope this can be helpful for you.