A.T.
J.,
My son is 19 years old now, my daughter is 14. My son is biological child, my daugher adopted. They are both ADHD. In addition to ADHD my son is bi-polar. We started working with meds when he was 4 years old and when she was 5 years old. for my son Ritilan worked well for a few years then just stopped working,We switched to Adderall XL so that he did nto have take meds at school, he did not like having to go to the office to take them. WE put his sister directely on Adderall XL. It has worked well for both of them. My son took Adderall until he was 14 years old, when we switched him over to meds to treat the bi-polar as it was a much bigger issue. my daughter is on Concerta now. You have to try the meds and give them at least 2-3 weeks to see if they are working or not. Don't be afraid to try them and don't let people make you feel like you are doing the wrong thing by giving meds. If you child had diabetes or some other illness people would be yelling if you did not medicate. I do home daycare and one of the children I have kept is ADHD he takes Vyvanse<sp> it is a newer med, non stimulant and seems to work great for him. I keep monsly children with issuses as I have 20 years exp. working with children with disablites.
My only piece of advice on what you should or should not try is if you use meds, find a physcartist who works with children as they are more knowledgeable about the meds you will be using.
Feel free to e-mail me if you have any questions or just need some moral support. I used to run a local support group.
hugs,
A.