If you want something that works, but isn't awkward for you to buy or have around, try the Hitachi Magic Wand. Its a "back massager" and works for that as well, so its the 007 of toys. Completely undercover...if you leave it out, its easily explained. It's around $45, and attachments can be purchased if you want something for your G-spot. On its own, externally, its amazing. Even if you are not fast at getting where you want to go, its quick and powerful. It plugs into the wall, and the vibrations are really strong, which is awesome, but some women don't like it for that reason. You seriously can get results ;-) in a minute. Get an extension cord. The Magic Wand is probably one of the all time best selling vibrators. Totally worth the price, and then some. Another classic is the pocket rocket. Its small, cheap (about $12 on amazon), and also really effective. Its also sexier if you want to bring it to the bedroom with hubby but its not an anatomical model. Try Good Vibrations website, its women run so its not unpleasant, and has reviews. Its much cheaper to get the Hitachi on Amazon, plus free two day shipping, and some reviews too.