M.P.
I know this is frustrating for you! I have 2 girls and both of them napped a solid hour about 2 hours after waking up and then took 1 or 2 cat naps during the day. They slept 10 hours at night. The pediatrician felt they were getting plenty of sleep and said not to try to force it (I was never successful in trying to enforce a longer nap). Around a year or so they settled into a one-nap-a-day routine (after lunch).
I clean toys by throwing them into a mesh laundry bag and running them through the dishwasher on the top rack (just toys, not with dirty dishes).