Hi K.,
Boy can I relate! I purchased my own home after growing fed up with apartment life as well. It's amazing, rewarding, and completely worth it. I don't know what your life situation is, but considering that I pay less in mortgage than I paid in rent, I don't see why anyone would rent (if they are able to purchase a home).
Consider this, though: GOOD apartments with maintenance crews that actually abide by policies set in place for resident protection will provide that peace of mind that if something breaks, you're covered. When you own your home, if the heater breaks, you're up the creek unless you've got the money laying around to fix it. That's IF you can get a repair-man to come out sooner rather than later. Also- yard work, home repairs, homeowner's insurance, taxes... really, the expenses add up.
So depending on your life situation- maybe you just need to find a better apartment complex!
Once, I broke a lease because the apartment personnel kept breaking their own policies. After two requests in writing from me, they refused to fix a black mold situation in my apartment. So, I sent them a date-stamped letter requesting out of the lease. I made them sign a typed a letter stating that I would not be liable for any fees resulting from breaking the lease early, and I moved out!!! I was so fed up!!! A man just walking into your apartment is SO NOT OKAY!!!
If they can't abide by your requests, maybe you could do something similar.
Regardless of what you figure out, I hope the best for you! I know how stressful these things can be.