ABSOLUTELY do debt counseling. There are the non profit, govt organizations...and then also online "certification classes". (These are required before anyone declares bankruptcy, btw.
Oddly enough, it's USUALLY better to file for Ch13 Bankruptcy, than to consolidate. Here's why:
CH13 IS consolidating...and it stays on your record for the same or less time (ironically)...but you're protected under the law. Here's how it works:
All of your debts (minus federal student loans and taxes) are tallied up. Then they're fed into a formula. That formula takes your income and subtracts necesseties (like rent/mort, bills -electricity, H20, Insurance, heat, medical, etc...all the daily living bills we all have,(up until here, it's identical to what consolidating companies do) THEN it subtracts a certain amount for food, clothing, school, childcare, entertainment, IRA's, Life insurance, college funds, etc. Say what's left over is 200 dollars. You'd pay that 200 dollars left over money a month for 5 years. That means that you'd be responsible for paying back 12,000 dollars...regardless of whether your debtload is 15,000 or 50,000.
In addition, if you lose your job, go on FMLA, for whatever reason...your income stops...so do your payments...until your income returns. Say you were laid off for three months. Those 3 months just get added onto the time you have to pay. You aren't "late" and have to "catch up", like with regular debt. If you have to take a lower paying job, you payments decrease. If you take a higher paying job your payments increase (out of deb faster). The BIG difference, is that you pay what you can afford, you're alloted "smart money" (insurance, medical, school, savings, entertainment) as opposed to just the bare necessities, and that you're protected by the law...both against your former creditors and incase of temporary (or permanent) inability to pay.
With debt consolidation, the company does a "deal" with your creditors. You still owe the same...but you typically aren't paying interest...so you're chunking away at the principle. The problem is that if say you owe 30k...you have 5 years to pay it off. That equals 500 a month. Regardless of what your income is, you pay 500. If you only have 600 left over after paying your rent/mort...that means you have 100 a month to buy food, pay your bills, go to the doctor, etc. Impossible right? Doesn't matter. They take your debt load, divide by 5, and divide by 12. You ALSO aren't protected by law...if you miss a payment for any reason you get booted out of the program (and aren't allowed back in). As well, all of your debts show on your report as defaulted or over 120 days late UNTIL they've been paid off in full. The last day you pay them off...they're adjusted to "paid". So you have 6 years and 11 months until all of the bad debt comes off of your report...and that's after you've just spent 5 years paying it off. AKA 10 years and 11 months. Ch13 meanwhile stays on your report for varying amounts of time...the longest being 10 years...the average being 7...and in a few cases I know of, only 3 years. Even the LONGEST time is better then the average of consolidation.
NOW....CH13 isn't *always* better then consolidation (although safer, in case something happens to your income level). But it usually is. To know, you'd need to do debt counseling & talk to an attorney about your specific case.
There's also CH7, which is the "wipe the slate clean" and start over form of bankruptcy. This is NOT for people who want to keep their house or any other assets. (Ch13 you can "exclude" your house, car, or other specific debts that you want to continue paying off). Ch.7 liquidates all or most of your assets. And it DOES stay on your record for 10 years.
Anyhow....the long and short is this: DO credit counseling, and DO talk with a good attorney.
Good Luck!!!