J.S.
I started cutting back feedings w/my first child. I cut out easy feedings first--like first thing in the morning. I'd replace that feeding w/cereal or fruit. Then after about a week of that I cut out lunch time. The hardest were nap times then finally bedtime. He cried w/those two--but only the first day. He whined a little the next day or two, but it was really easier than I thought it would be. It took about a month to wean him completly. Good luck!!!