S.M.
J.,
I do not have any idea what to do at home, my hubby and I are in the same situation. I do, however have a few ideas to help you cut the costs you have. Some are basic things most people don't think to do but can save you a lot of money. Clip coupons, I only buy name brand things IF they are on sale AND I have a coupon. Shop around for your groceries and stuff, take a Saturday and go to a few different grocery stores and write down the cost of the things you always buy and compare them, if you can get them for cheaper by slpitting up the stores you shop at, why not. But go by yourself, so you can pay attention to what you are doing.
I also called our credit card companies and asked for a lower interest rate. I told them we were going to file bankrupsy if I couldn't lower the payment and interest rate and they dropped the rates for me, as much as 8% in some cases. If you threaten to file bankrupt, they will work with you since they know if you do file they don't get any of the money you owe, but if they work with you, they will eventually get their money. If you have loans, call them and see if you can apply for a new loan to pay off the old one and lower your payment, it will stretch out the balance, but the payment will be lower and more managble. Also, I would suggest starting a savings account or getting some type of insurance like AFLAC for your hubby incase he were hurt at work, you guys would be up a creek without a paddle or a boat. Also you should look through the stuff you have and sort it out and consider having a yard sale or posting stuff on Craigs list. I discovered so much stuff that we had and didn't use and in one weekend we made $200 at a yardsale. And we still had a little stuff left over.
Also, if you have a hobby, like painting or plastic canvas or stuff like that, consider selling some of your work, it won't be like work since it is your hobby and you enjoy doing it. I offer dog sitting services since I love animals and I can make some good money.
Good luck and God Bless, if you would like more ideas message me and I can give you hand.
S.