B.B.
L.,
Hi there. I am sorry to hear of this news.
When my daughter was 9 months old, they figured out that she had bladder reflux. So I had to take her for the VCUG test. To be honest, this is a very difficult test to have to watch. My husband wouldn't even go with me to help in fear that he would punch one of the nurses. This test becomes more difficult (if possible) the older that the get. When my daughter turned 3, they made her do her final testing so that they could clear her, and trust me when I tell you that it is harder on you than it is on them. When they are pottie trained, it become really hard to have to hold your kid down so that they can do this test. They could not get her to go to the bathroom because she was laying on the table, and not on the toilet. I had them pouring water on her and everything just to try to get the solution out. It was the worst thing I have ever had to experience. I think that no matter how prepared you are for this test, you are never going to not cry. Lots of love to you and your family. God bless all of you and I hope this helps.