Baby Stopped Sleeping Through the Night...Any Suggestions?

Updated on August 14, 2008
C.P. asks from Springwater, NY
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My DS, who is 5 1/2 months old, has been sleeping 10 hours at night for a couple of months now. For the past 1 1/2 weeks, he is waking up 2-3x's per night. When he wakes up, I try to smooth him by patting his bottom, rubbing his back, or giving him his passifire. The last two nights, I have had to nurse him to get him back to sleep. I let him cry for a little bit to see if he'll fall back asleep on his own, but I don't let him cry too long because he shares a room with his brother and I don't want him to wake his brother up. Thankfully, he should have his own room in a month (just waiting on construction).

Any suggestions about why he has suddenly started doing this? Perhaps he's teething? Any suggestions about how to get him to sleep through the night without letting him cry it out?

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So What Happened?

So, DH and I decided to try the cry it out method. We put my other son in another room. The first night, my baby cried for 45 minutes. It was heart breaking. The second night, he cried for 40 minutes. The next night, he cried for 30 minutes. He is now going down for naps without any crying! He's doing amazing! We let him fuss in the middle of the night. He usually settles down within 10 minutes.

Although crying it out was tough and seemed unfair to the baby, it does seem to be a method that works. I'm glad my DH was around to assist me because I think I would've caved in and picked up my baby.

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D.Z.

answers from Binghamton on

C.,

Babies have growth spurts throughout their first two years, with periods of sleeping well/eating less in between. He needs to be fed if he is waking up at night. You will go through this several times before his second birthday, and then the spurts become less frequent and noticeable as far as waking at night are concerned. Your baby is still very young, I wouldn't be concerned about creating a bad habit...he's just hungry and can't help that!

I have four biologicals and have found this to be true with all of them...they sleep well for a while and then they wake up during spurts.

D.

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D.

answers from New York on

2words...Growth Spurt. He's coming up on a big growth spurt. So the nursing (not that you want this to become a habit) during the night will help increase your milk supply for the new bigger him. Give it a week or so and hopefully it will pass.

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A.P.

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He could really be hungry, or teething. There are many reasons. Whenever my son woke in the night I feed him. And if he was really wet or poopy I changed him. I wouldn't want to sleep all night hungry or dirty either. Eventually my son started sleeping longer and better without "crying it out".

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A.H.

answers from Buffalo on

C.,
It's very possible that your son is going through a growth spurt and is needing some extra calories. Try feeding him right before you put him down and see if that helps.

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S.S.

answers from Glens Falls on

When my son was almost 6 months old my doctor told me that he would start waking at night soon because they "just do that". He told me not to feed him or change him because it would become a habit that he wakes up for. He suggested I let him cry it out.

Luckily for me, my son didn't start waking up so I didn't have to worry about whether or not to take that advice.

I'm passing it on to you in case you find it helpful.

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Z.D.

answers from New York on

Hi C.,
Your son is doing this because he is getting to an age where he now can start to feel separation and absence of objects and people. When babies are first born you can put them in a bouncy seat and walk away without them looking for you or getting upset, but as they get older around 5-6 months they are able to think about you and know you are there, but cry because they can't see you, so that's why Dr.'s say their sleeping patterns change as they age. They do this with toys too. At this stage they will have a toy in their grasp, drop it and start to look for it because they remember they had it in their hands. I know Dr.'s and even friends say let them cry it out, but for me and my husband, we couldn't do that with our daughter. 5 minutes was our max!!! I'm up with her sometimes at 2am for a long stretch, but that's her teething now, she has 4 coming in at once, poor dolly!!! Babies through toddler years just need love and attention and extra hugs to feel secure. They grow so fast and the nurture you put into them now will pay off later!!!!! One suggestion is to get a good white noise machine. We started our daughter with this the day she was home. White noise helps as a soothing background to drown out other noise and really helps to lull them to sleep. It does WONDers for our daughter and she sleeps very well now at 13 months old. I hope this advice helps.... He will start to sleep again, not to worry! Just comfort him when he needs it! =) Sending sleep vibes!! =)

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