S.S.
First you must remember it took 9 months to put on the weight and it will take at least 9 months to take it off. I just had baby #4 6 months ago and I gained 50 lbs that i will acknowledge in public. I was at 200lb at birth and now down to 155lb. I BF and you can NOT diet. At 3 months i was ready to get out of the blubber body that baby had left me. I am have not worked out. No time with 4 chidlren. Things are not as tone as they were in the past. The great thing is that it is not swimsuit season now and you can always wear things that play down the extra weight. Reality is that people that you meet will have no idea what you looked like before and just comment on how great you look like now after just having a 3 month old.