M.C.
Please do everything you can to avoid bankruptcy! I highly advise that you go to this sight http://boards.babycenter.com/n/pfx/forum.aspx?folderId=1&...# and let the people there help you! You can post your budget and they will help you figure out ways to cut back on spending and ways to pay off your debt. They have saved my sanity and gotten us on track just this last month and I can't tell you how awesome it feels to know that we are going to be DEBT-FREE in less than 3 years! I also recommend that you go to the library(to save money) and check out Dave Ramsey's book The Total Money Makeover. You will definately understand why you should NOT file bankruptcy! I just finished the book and am so excited to know that WE CAN and WILL do what it takes to make the changes we need to.
If you need/want to talk more you can email me as well. I live in Des Moines too, near Ankeny!