J.B.
When I was on a particular pill a few years ago (can't remember which one, now), I would have dramatic mood swings. My husband (boyfriend at the time), made a light-hearted, teasing comment about my hair, and I started yelling at him and crying uncontrollably. Yikes! I could hear myself being an idiot but couldn't stop it. I switched pills and finally found one that got me back to normal. It did take a couple of tries, but I think you will be able to find something.
To this day, my husband won't say anything about my hair, good, bad or indifferent. I could probably shave my head and he wouldn't say anything for fear of me freaking out. :)