A.S.
You can try different types of nipples. As far as the pacifier, try the "hospital" type, they are kind of a clear green and round with a completely round, not flat, end to suck on. I beleive they are called Soothies? They are available in some stores now, used to be only in the hospital!! You may be able to "force" the bottle if you withhold the breast and offer only the bottle several feedings in a row. But that is awfully hard on both baby and mommy, and probably not worth it unless you really have to have to have him take a bottle for some reason. Just enoy the breastfeeding for now. In a coup-le months he will be able to take a little cereal and so it won't be as critical if you are going to be out for a feeding.