Yes! I relactated, but I only had a 4 week window of not breastfeeding. You should still be able to do it (and it is definitely worth it!), but it will take some time and effort. It's supposed to take about the same amount of time that you haven't been breastfeeding to get your supply back up to full (it did take me about 5 weeks, but I also slacked off a bit at night). My suggestions for you, based on what I did:
- Get a nursing supplementer, I had the Medela SNS. That way your baby is stimulating your supply, and still getting formula. It might also help with gas, since he'll be eating much more slowly than on the bottle.
- Nurse (using the supplementer), every two hours, 3 at night (this is where I slacked - if you need the sleep, don't wake him up for this, you can go 4 hours, I would actually let my husband feed him once during the night while I pumped (I had some severe nipple pain, some people do, hopefully you won't - it only lasts a few weeks normally). Try to have your son on a total of 30 minutes or more when you first start nursing, even if he is done. More is great, and it will be less once you get your supply back up.
- Keep track of your feedings (there are charts, I can't find the one I used). You want to have what time you started, how many ounces of formula you fed using the supplementer, how long he fed. This is nice to have to make sure you are feeding your baby at least 8 times during a 24 hour period (I often had to count a pumping from the middle of the night to get that), and you can see the amount of formula eaten as well. I noticed that he was drinking less formula for the first week or two, then we stayed at the same place for a while (which was depressing), but then the last week we went from 10 ounces to 2 ounces a day (when I stopped using the supplementer) in like 5 days.
- Pump if you want, but only after you have fed your son. I noticed that short bursts of pumping helped me more than long ones, like 5 minutes, and then another 5 minutes 30 minutes later.
- Make sure you eat and drink enough, preferably more than now. You can take fenugreek and blessed thistle to help with your supply, do it one at a time to see which, if either actually helps you. Eat oatmeal (not instant) a few times a week, and check out other galactogues on the kellymom.com site.
- See if you can find some sort of support, a friend who has breastfed, lactation consultant, LLL, anyone that will say you're doing great and help you if you need it.
- Spend a lot of time with your son, obviously you will do this feeding him, and appreciate that time. I get so much reading done (especially while relactating) when I nurse, I love that.
I stopped breastfeeding my son at 2 weeks, and started relactating at 6 weeks. He is now over a year old and still going strong (I am not stopping anytime soon after all of the hard work I did). I can't imagine it any other way. Good luck, and let me know if you have any questions. I would love to hear how it's going if you do decide to relactate, and can offer more help or support if you ever need it.