J.G.
Stop using the pill. I hated what I felt like on it. Since you have had a child, you can get an IUD. They are totally removeable if you want to get pregnant, etc. The only cost I had for it was the visit to see my OB/GYN. I got the Mirena and it works great. Hardly any bleeding. I only have to wear a pantyliner a few days a month. It is wonderful!!