My two year old son was diagnosed with two hemangiomas on both of his eyes, on the bottom of his eyelids, when he was two months old. We had thought he had hit himself with a toy and given himself a black eye. They litterally just popped up over night. When we took him in for his two month his pediatrician explained to us what they were and showed me some pictures that absolutley terrified me!!! We were sent to a Dermatology specialist and an Opthamologist at a Childrens Hospital here in KC. They checked his eyes to make sure it was not affecting his sight because of the location. We went back every 3 months for the first year and then now it's been every six months. The doctors were so wonderful in explaining what it was and what to expect. We were very lucky as my son's did not grow very much so they did not affect his vision and we didn't have to go down the steriod route. After the first visit with the doctors I felt much better and was very relieved it wasn't something serious, especially after seeing other children there. Our doctors told us that they typically grow for a year to year and a half and then at that point they normally stop growing. They say it can take several years for them to go away though. My son's have become less noticable as he has grown and they have also faded. Some grow very big and some do not. They can be treated if they grow large with steriods but that is a discussion you need to have with your doctor. My biggest concern was his vision, but as long as you are seeing a good doctor and they keep an eye on it, measuring, monitoring its growth, they can help determine whether or not that path is needed. I relied a lot on the advice of my doctors and some information I found on the web. Just don't get freaked out by some of the pictures, these are extreme cases and it doesn't meen that is what will happen.
I spent a lot of time explaining what they were because it looked like he had two black eyes, but I learned to get used to it, because it didn't affect my little boy. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you find a good doctor to help you through this.
Good luck