D.F.
Check out this website:
www.center-for-independence.org/
They work through Conductive Education and are geared towards special needs. I was a Nanny for a Family in Crystal Lake who has a set of twin boys and one of them has CP and attends this school 2-3 times a week instead of going to his public shool on those days. His Mother is in the process of starting her own School in the Crystal Lake area and should be open by next summer. The parents are both Doctors. The Father works at Caring Family in Crystal Lake and his name is Dr. Gancayco. You might want to try calling the office and see if you can speak with him. He is a very good Doctor, especially for special needs children.
Here is the office info:
781 McHenry Avenue, Crystal Lake, IL 60014
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My personal advice is to make sure you find time for yourself too, so you can feel less stressed. Then you can really be the best parent you can be. Keep pursuing all your options. There is information out there, just keep asking and looking.
Best Wishes!