If you're talking about the glow sticks like the ones sold at Target in the dollar bin...the ones big enough to make a necklace if connected to another of the same size, how on earth can anyone pass this through their intestines without serious damage?! Even if it is one the size for a small bracelet, they are stiff and filled with that chemical. How on earth is that supposed to make its way through the esophogus let alone the intestines?
I'm stunned they sent you home!! If I were in your shoes, I'd be finding another hospital and keep pushing for some action until you get some. Expense or not, coverage or no coverage, it sounds like you unfortunately got taken to some backward clinic in the middle of nowhere with some scary country doctors who can't tell the difference between treating a human and treating bovine.
Is your child comfortable? Can he talk? Can he feel it? My gosh, 2 years ago my then 13 year old Lab accidentally swallowed a soup spoon whole and because at one end it was so wide, it became caught right at the sphincter muscle that opens the stomach to the intestines. He was fine for a little while, but quickly was very uncomfortable as the spoon tried to make its way past that muscle into the intestines.
They took an x-ray on an old dog that should have been put to sleep! They told us there is no way anything that stiff would pass through the intestines without damage, excessive bleeding (which can cause complications), the possiblity of torsion (which is fatal) or a puncture (which is also fatal). The only way to ensure saving the dog's life would have been surgery. All of this for an old dog! What gives with the doctors you saw that day? We're talking about a child!
We couldn't afford it, and by some freak miracle, my mother told us it is possible to give dogs the Heimlich maneuver. As a last ditch effort, we said a whole of lot prayers (my husband loved that dog!) because the vet had scheduled an euthanasia, my husband did the Heimlich on the dog. The spoon came flying out and the dog's life was spared.
To this day our vet has our dog's x-ray on the wall and talks about this freak miracle dog. That dog lived to be 15, which is really old for his breed. That was 2 years past the time he swallowed the spoon.
I guess the point of this story is 1.) If a straight inflexible object was deemed impassable in a dog, I don't think a glow stick is any different in child even if it has some flexibility to it. It is afterall plastic. 2.) They told us surgery was the only option without complications or death. I know your son is not an animal, but animals and humans are often faced with similar medical challenges and the solutions are often similar, perhaps your ER doctors and pediatricians did a sloppy job and shouldn't be trusted. Do they even know what a glow stick looks like? Did you have a sample for them to look at? Perhaps that stick needs to be removed now before it starts trying to travel through your son's system. 3.) I wouldn't give up, but exhaust all options. If we had taken our vet's word, our dog wouldn't have lived an additional 2 years, or he would have had surgery but been seriously challenged with digestive issues for the remainder of his life (so we were told).
I just think you need to find 2nd or 3rd opinions on this. I'm mortified for you and your child that he is left to sit around and wait for some stiff, chemical filled piece of plastic to "maybe" pass through his delicate little system.
Eventually, if this doesn't move it will create a blockage if he continues to eat and drink like normal.
As for your question...heck yeah, I would have done the same thing! And no I wouldn't let insurance be an obstacle. I think you got sh*&%y medical care from everyone one involved in responding to your case. Now that you are back home, are you closer to a better Children's hospital or regional hospital with the right facilities and more competent doctors? I really think you need to get better answers than to wait 7 days! That might be too late.
I'd also be contacting the company that makes those things and file a report, I'd contact your local consumer protection agency and report it (so these can get recalled off the shelves) and I'd be calling the store headquarters also. If your child swallowed one, any child could swallow one. In fact, there may be other cases...wouldn't you want to know the outcome and what is being done about it? I certainly would!
I'm sorry I'm going on...but I'm outraged for you that this has happend and now you and your child are left with no help or support whatsoever. Please, find another hospital and get an x-ray, a cat-scan, a esophogial camera scope (sp?) MRI or ultrasound. One of these types of machines WILL pick up the stick. If they can detect cancer cells and other minute particles, they surely could detect the glow stick.
If possible see a gastro and get their assessment. Maybe this is just out of the league of a run of the mill pediatrician. >:{ All I know is, if anything goes wrong, I'd hire a lawyer without batting a lash!