As a registered nurse I was always taught that chiropractors where quacks. And I too had heard about the strokes, I think there is even a former Miss America (YEARS AGO) who I read about that supposedly had a bad experience after a chiropractic visit. But I am now a convert and actually make an appointment with chiro BEFORE my MD.
The condensed version is that my husband was born with a problem and he would through his 'back out of whack' at least every 6 months. He did that once but was supposed to golf in a big tournament he didn't want to miss. He said his doc would just put him on pain pills and muscle relaxants and he'd 'sit and drool on himself' for weeks. He wanted to try a chiropractor but it was before I had changed my thoughts. I said fine, but he was on his own with that decision! The chiropractor did acupuncture AND gave him exercises to help strengthen his back muscles. I kid you not, that was 10 years ago and he has never had a problem since!
Then about 3 years ago we had a big trip to Europe coming up. But I could barely sit for a couple hour plane ride due to an old tailbone injury. I wasn't sure how I was going to make it on a 6-7 flight, plus all the walking around.
I decided to TRY a chiropractor I had heard of. And Dawn B, was correct. I didn't even have to voice my concerns and this chiropractor (who actually has turned into a great friend) said up front, she will not have me coming back, several days a week, months on end. She wouldn't touch me without initial x-rays. And if she couldn't help me within a couple of weeks she'd have to refer me on. All I can say is that it was amazing. Not only did I make the trip but had a fabulous time and was fine. I didn't have problems with my tailbone again for 6 months.
I now understand too the preventative benefits of routine chiropractic care. No, I'm not in there every week, but probably average once a month.
I also agree with finding a good massage therapist. I too hold my stress in the same places you do. I'll try to get an adjustment and then in to see my massage therapist within a week for a deep tissue massage. The combination is so helpful for me.
Oh, and no offense to my other healthcare professionals. But if you do a little research it was the American Medical Association many years ago who purposely set out to destroy the reputation of chiropractors and osteopaths because patients were getting treatment relief from them and not utilizing traditional medicine. But a good chiropractor too won't mention that. They are just happy to see you and help.