My second daughter was a planned inducement, and we had a 5 to 14 day window in which to plan her arrival if she didn't make an appearance on her own. We debated my husband's birthday and our anniversary (one day apart)or to just let the doctor plan what day was best for his schedule... We thought it would be great for our last child to share the day with her daddy. Then, we thought she might feel a bit cheated by having to share all the attention, celebration, and festivities with someone else. We decided to let the doctor choose a day, and she was born 10 days after daddy's day, and 11 days after our anniversary. She now revels in knowing that her birth is ONE of MANY celebrated events in the month of May, but that she has her very OWN day all to herself, which she can be the Pincess of the ball.
I think that just having your days so close will be a wonderful bond, and if you later want to celebrate both at once, you can do a day between the two.... (just think... a mom and daughter spa weekend or manicure/pedicure...) the possibilities are endless!!!!
good luck and God bless!
L.