G.B.
When playing Dirty Santa one must always be open to the idea they won't be going home with the gift they like the best...most likely it will be a dud. That is what always happens to me.
If you implement some rules at the beginning it does make it easier. Like a gift can only be taken away 3 times. That means one person goes to the table and selects a gift. Then another person takes it. Then a person can take it from them. Then only one more can take it and the gift is theirs to keep. As the gift is taken from someone they immediantly are the next person in line to get a gift and they can take any gift that has not already been exchanged until it is out of the game.
Anther rule is that when someone takes a gift from you then you have to get a different gift, however if that gift is taken by the next person in line they can go at that time and take the original gift back if they want to. Sort of no tag backs....but they do get another chance if they have at least one person in between them.
I enjoy playing with people that are really good friends and that will not have hard feelings over the changes. Have a great time!