Christmas Gifts for Teachers: $30-50 Each?

Updated on December 10, 2010
K.B. asks from Dulles, VA
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I looked online and it said to give teachers $30-50 each. What do you all think? I really loved cash when I taught, but $20 seems tops.

UPDATED: How do you get in touch with the parents and do a gift card? Here about 1/3 at least refuse to be in the directory so we have no idea how to get ahold of them. I like the VISA card that can be used anywhere. Thanks.

Here is the site where I googled tipping teachers and it is from 2008.
How Much to Give for Holiday Tipping, Who to Tip: Recommended ...Dec 10, 2008 ... Christmas Tips for Teachers – $30 to $50 cash, or classroom supplies with a handmade gift from the child make for an appropriate holiday tip ...
www.suite101.com/.../holiday-tipping-for-mailmen-pet-sitt...

I also googled maximum cash gift for teachers and MA and VT I believe said $50 per teacher. I am not worried about anything thinking it is a bribe as she always has all high A's and E's.

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I decided to stick with the original $50 cash and thank you cards. Franklly my baking is only slightly better than my cooking;0). We were blessed this year and these people make a huge difference in our lives. Thanks for the feedback and Merry Christmas.

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J.M.

answers from Boston on

Woah, no. Too much. Not to mention that it is probably illegal for teachers to accept monetary gifts of any amount. I think it's incredibly thoughtful that you want to give such a large gift, but I think something like a $10 gift card for books, coffee, etc would be more appropriate. I'm a teacher, if that makes a difference.

good luck.

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L.L.

answers from Hartford on

I think that $30-$50 is on the high side. My son's teacher is getting a class gift and we were asked to contribute $7 each. I also let him pick out a hot cocoa and a mug and it was about $5.

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M.C.

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My son is now in preschool and has too many teachers for me to be this generous. His primary - day teacher is getting a $30 gift and his primary day teacher from earlier in the year is getting the same. I picked out smaller $10-15 gifts for the afternoon teachers (about 2 hrs per day). However, I wanted to make you feel better because it seems so many people are calling you crazy for the $50 reference. A friend of mine taught 4th grade in a private school. At Christmas, she received numerous $50 gift certificates to Target, restaurants, VISA etc. She received expensive perfume valued at more than $50 as well. Apparently those parents did not respond to your question. If you can afford $50 per teacher, I say go for it. Teachers perform a great service for our children and are not well paid.

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D.G.

answers from Houston on

Our school policy prohibits teacher gifts over $50. I never spend more than $20 / teacher myself. (don't forget the bus driver!).

My sister is a teacher and she appreciates gift cards, regardless of the amount. (as well as cute homeade stuff from the kids).

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K.L.

answers from Washington DC on

As a teacher I preferred a gift. Just sentimental I guess.
I remember every gift I ever got that included the childs photo, or the child seemed to have a part in...such as a card they wrote attached and a cute child like gift. I would not want money for sure and would think it is weird. The gift should seem more like from the kid too. Ask your kid to choose between 3 options. Ornament is good, homemade baked goods is excellent, cookie jar is good, angel figure, some combo of these type things. Gift card is sterile to me. Give a gift card if you don't particularly bond with the teacher

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B.D.

answers from Pittsburgh on

That sounds a bit high and could be misconstrued as trying to buy better grades. I agree with a gift card in a much lower amount or a sentimental gift that will remind the teacher of your child year after year.

To answer your update, at our school the head home room parent sent home a sealed envelope with each child. In it was a note requesting a contribution towards the teacher's gift. We are to send our contribution in an envelope with her daughter's name marked on it. Even so I don't believe everyone responds. I suppose I should add that in the letter she mentioned what she would like to purchase for the teacher. The more information you give the more likely people might respond...maybe :-) People are funny plus some prefer to purchase their own gift individually.

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M.L.

answers from Houston on

$5-$10 max

once they start having more than one teacher, than $5 max

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A.L.

answers from Las Vegas on

we usually buy a restaurant gift card.. we ve been able to get a good deal in that we wanted to spend 30 but ended up spending 25 b/c the restaurant was having a special.. spend 25 and they give you a gift card for 5... therefore, it worked out nicely..
It might be hard for some to figure out which restaurant to use.. but I have knack for those things.. if you aren't sure , then maybe the restaurant gift isn't a good idea.. so far , it's been a hit with us..

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J.L.

answers from Oklahoma City on

Wow! I would never do that much, that seems in sane. I agree, $20 tops. I am actually doing my son's pre=k teacher a hobby lobby gift card. I am not sure yet for the assistant. Then my middle son has 4 MDO teachers. I am thinking about an ornament. It seems to get more pricey each year.

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N.C.

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$20 sounds like plenty. when i taught i got a few of those and was shocked that the parents actually gave that much. got to say my fav gift was a bracelette that one of my students made. if you're not sure what kind of card to get you can always personalize it. if you know the teacher well enough--her likes--ie starbucks. some of us always went to starbucks on a daily basis every morning or afternoon during lunch and the parents gave us those gift cards. but visa works great too.

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K.M.

answers from Kansas City on

My son is in Kindergarten and I am giving his teacher a $50 gift card. Last year, when he was in preschool 3 mornings a week, I gave his teacher a $25 gift card for Christmas and $50 for end of the year. I REALLY like my son's teacher (and LOVED his preschool teacher). Give what you feel comfortable.

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B.R.

answers from Milwaukee on

We went to Michaels and bought a cute snowman jar and are going to fill it with dove chocolates. Total cost is under $10. Price doesn't matter if it is something the teacher will like.

K.B.

answers from Salt Lake City on

Wow-that seems steep unless you did get a bunch of parents to pitch in. If you could get 10 parents to pitch in $3 or $5, then I guess you could go that route.

I thought teachers appreciated something from the kids or "home made" or store bought treats-IF they can even accept them anymore. I usually find out if they collect certain things or have certain interests and then get them something small and very reasonably priced...

L.A.

answers from Austin on

It has been my experience Teachers feel a little strange receiving cash, but love gift cards..

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T.M.

answers from Philadelphia on

Our school pools the money and gets a gift certificate or american express type thing. No one gives more than 5 or 10 dollars. I have 4 kids, some who have numerous teachers... we would be broke if we did 30-50 dollars each :(

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K.M.

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Um, my kids' teachers never get more than $15 worth of anything. I usually give gift certificates to local businesses or personalized note pads.

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A.W.

answers from Washington DC on

I think about $10 is right. It's the thought not the actual amount that matters. Sometimes one of the parents pool the money all together to get a nice gift.

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R.D.

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WHAT?!?!!!!! Where online did you see to give teachers THAT MUCH?!?!! I don't think it is legal. I think a nice handmade card or Christmas ornament from your child is enough. Gift cards in ANY amount would be fine - even $5.00!! Starbucks, a bookstore or teacher supply store are good ideas of where to get one.

Here's a post that gives ideas - from a teacher herself: http://bit.ly/IdeasForTeacher (or here: http://www.mycouponteacher.com/2010/12/teacher-gift-ideas/)

You could also give personalized labels! You can get them from here (http://bit.ly/hNrbz4) for FREE, just pay about $3 shipping!

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M.M.

answers from Washington DC on

I usually gift homeade cookies and candies or jam and breads. My daughter is in high school, that would be $30x8=YIKES!!!

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M.R.

answers from Phoenix on

I don't trust those gift giving sites at all. Must be written by Mr Money Bags. What average family has that kind of cash around?

For a group gift, I try to give $10 per teacher, $5 if it's an aide.

If it's a teacher I just adore, then $20 tops.

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M.O.

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You can ask the principal if you can send a note home to the parents asking them to go in on a gift card. You would be responsible for coping the info yourself. We were able to do this, we printed something on 1/2 sheets of paper for each child to take home.

I would say something like, "If you would like to contribute to a class gift for Ms._______, we are planning to buy a VISA gift card in the amount we collect. You can send an envelope to school with your child, addressed to my child, ________. For any questions, please call me at _________.

T.F.

answers from Dallas on

My daughter has 7 teachers so I am no personally going that route. There are also policies in effect which limit the teachers as well so check out your ISD for any rules.

I spent about $20 on each cheer coach (2), and for the other 7 I will spend around $15.

The VISA card is a great idea and I love it, however, you do pay a fee to activiate it. I send these to my neice and nephew in Pittsburgh and a $50 giftcard costs $4.95 to activate. Added costs but for them it is ok because I have no idea where they like to shop.

I've seen classroom gifts be a money tree or a citrus tree with money attached to it from the class but not at Christmas.

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