L.F.
My nephew was born with both a cleft lip and a cleft palate and had to go through the same surgeries. He's turning 3 this June and is doing GREAT! The hardest part for my sister was feeding him. Every time they had a surgery he had to adjust the way he ate, so they had to adjust the way they fed him. What worked best for her was the bottles with the plastic linings. Then she would just squeeze the plastic bag and he would eat that way. Also, his speech was delayed and he in hard to understand. He gets speech services now, though, and is starting to talk up a storm.