We are approaching 21 yrs married on new years eve. One thing we have Always done is date night weekly. It is a priority.
We like happy hour, dinner, maybe dancing ( all 3 in 1
night sometimes just 1). We love fine restaurants and wine so we that as well. The priority is to have alone time. You don't have to break the bank every weeknd to enjoy some quality time.
My hubb is a golfer. Some dates are during the day on the golf course, simply walking in the park. We love sports and go to games or sports bats to be involved with NFL and college events.
Right now, I have teens at my house weekly. I'd rather them hang out where I know what's going on! So, today for example, he already pulled a steak out from the freezerand put potatoes in to bake while I teach. Well have dinner before the teens get to our home.
It's great that you are thinking about this and realize the importance.
You don't have to go out physically every weekend, just manage some alone time.