I highly recommend you do some research. Check out the money section of www.msn.com. Just type in debt consolidation and go from there. Tons of articles that will give you information on what to do and what to avoid. You find info on debt consolidation, debt settlement, debt counceling, etc.
You may aslo want to contact the National Foundation for Consumer Credit or Consumer Credit Counceling Service.
You can do most of this yourself. Just ask us mamas, we've got tons of free advice.
If you want to get out the debt the first thing you need to do is make a list of all your income for the month, include paychecks, child support, gov't assistance, etc. Now the hard part, make a list of ALL your monthly expenses, include everything, rent/mortgage, car payment, minimum credit card payments, groceries, kids school lunches, meals out, phone bills, stops at the conveniece store, gas, car insurance, life insurance, health & beauty products, etc. Then make a list of expenses you only pay a few times a year, taxes, clothing, haircuts, add these up and divide by 12 to get a monthly total. Also make a list of all your assets, savings & checking accounts, vehicles, 401k.
Why do you need to do that? Many reasons, it'll give you a visual guide and any service you contact will need this information in order to help you. Using this guide you can make decissions as to where you can cut expenses.
Do you use an on-line service (usually free with most banks) for paying your bills? A great way to cut expenses and avoid late fees.
Good luck.