K.L.
Hello E., Welcome to the world of diabetes! Our daughter was diagnosed with type 1 when she was 12 and is 25 now. Its not going to be the easiest world for these girls but it isnt impossible to carry on a normal healthy life. We think very highly of the insulin pump our daughter had. It was the only thing that stabilized her blood sugar and made her feel better. She was a brittle diabetic and several Drs felt she should get her BS(in more ways than 1) under control and then get a pump but it proved to be the other way around for her. The pump was so easy for her to learn and she was in the best control within a couple days of starting it. She was much older than your girl but they have ways to teach very young kids how to use them and how to keep them locked and protected from other curious hands and mistakes. Its highly recommended to give lessons on its use and how it works to any teacher and daycare provider she has so when you arent there it is being handled by someone with a bit of knowledge. Our first pump lasted 4 years and then started to malfunction and was replaced under our medical insurance. She had it for nearly 2 years and in a crazy mix up at a friends house it was lost. Insurance wouldnt cover another for 2 more years and the cost is pretty high.(up to $7000) At that time she was over 18 and we couldnt include her on our insurance anylonger so she has gone back to multiple daily shots. She wants another pump but is on her own now and just cant afford it. I want to tell you how lucky you are to have your girl diagnosed at the age she was. Not that Id ever wish diabetes on anyone at any age but at 3-4 you are still very much in control of her life, food, and schedule which makes teaching her how to care for herself much easier. She will grow up with her diabetic care so much a part of normal living it will be easy for her to do things right. At 12 we had started to "let her go" and become more independant and suddenly tried to pull her back and take care of things for her and it proved to be nearly impossible. She has such a mind of her own and wanted us to leave her alone and handle everything on her own. It was very difficult to sit back and watch and she did make a lot of mistakes. As parents this is by far the hardest thing we ever had to go thru but we have come out on a bright side with the birth of her baby girl last year. YES! A baby, healthy and adorable and showing no signs of diabetes at this point. It is a gift to have them both healthy and happy. You will have ups and downs, but in our opinion the insulin pump is wonderful and with the right training and care Id say even a 4 yr old will do very well with one. Check around different manufactures to find one whos batteries last a long time. Our first one could go for a couple months on 2 tiny batteries but the second pump would last a week and it was a real pain to be buying new batteries all the time. Also they can be covered under most insurances so the cost doesnt eat you up everytime you have to replace them. I know this is a long letter but gosh, this diabetes is a huge part of our lives and I know what you are going thru and would give you and that little girl a big hug if i could! Best of luck, and go ahead and try a pump and you may really see the benifits as we did. Feel free to email me anytime. (o: