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i used the old fashioned ones with number 1 and she was potty trained (totally) by 14 months. She did it on her own. I would rather have had her in diapers a little longer to avoid rushing to the bathroom every few minutes. I laundered at home, but back then I had a housekeeper.
With number 2, a boy, I use fuzzybunz. No housekeeper now, I still launder at home. Its not a big deal at all. He's a year old and no where near out of diapers yet.
Do what's right for you and don't listen to anyone else.
Also, are you sure you have access to diaper service where you live? I ask b/c I don't.