J.K.
Hi A. - My name is J. and I have a 7 year old autistic son. We don't have any problems with brushing teeth, as a matter of fact, he now does it himself. With the potty training, does your son show any outward signs of having to go potty? If so, can you cue him to use the potty when you see these signs? That is how we started training Will. Now, he goes pee pee on the potty, going #2 is another story. I am handling it the same way, when I see him cross his legs, it is usually a sign he has to go poo poos. I ask him if he has to go poo poos, and then we sit on the potty. Sometimes for a short period of time and sometimes for a long time. He has been successful several times, but we still have to work at reinforcing poo poos on the potty. I hope this helps somewhat and good luck with all four of your beautiful children.
J. K
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Mom to Jeffrey 12, Allison 10 and William 7 and with Autism.