S.C.
I have loved going on a cruise for vacation with my children. I did not start out with the kids as young as yours but the youngest was 4 when we started to cruise. I also have never had the budget to go on a Disney Cruise. I usually will go on NCL or Royal Caribbean. We usually did have second dinner seating so I found that ordering room service early for a snack and then going to dinner was better for the kids. Room service is free and there should be other places on the ship that food severed 24 hours. One of the reasons I like NCL is they now no longer have a set time to eat you just go to dinner when you like. I have also found http://boards.cruisecritic.com/ to be a great value with questions about cruiseing. I also have a packing list if you would like it to help plan . We will be going on our next cruise in march.
sorry this is long but found this information for Disney Cruises.
1. Early arrival gets an early boarding pass number.
2. The terminal opens 10 a.m.
3. Boarding starts around 11:30 to noon.
4. Keep a camera with you at ALL times, even in the terminal. Characters will appear there for photos. There is an outdoor viewing area of the ship for photos.
5 Check in at kid's club table while waiting to board the ship. it saves you time on the ship.
6. Take a few ones. Some for room service tips and some to tip porters who take your bags at the terminal. $1 per bag is customary. Oh I like to use the gold $ coins the staff then will always remember you.
7. Take small bills for the islands. Many small shops don't have change.
8. If you're going to use your credit card on the islands, call your CC company first and tell them or you will have to wait on a phone call to OK all your purchases. This is a big hassle and can take 30 minutes or more.
9. Most shops who take credit cards require a $20 minimum purchase.
10 Take a camera to dinner each night, surprises happen all the time. You won't be alone. You will even see camcorders at dinner. If you use a digital camera I bring my laptop on the ship also so that I can download the camera every day.
11. Arrive at all shows 20 minutes early for good seats.
12. Arrive at character meets 10 minutes early.
13 Princess meets arrive 15 minutes early.
14. On Castaway Cay if you want your photo taken with Captain Jack Sparrow, do NOT ride the tram to the beach area. It does NOT stop near him. You must walk in to the beach. The signs say 20 minute walk in it takes us 10 minutes. He will be along the way in the sand and the photos have the Flying Dutchman behind you, great photo! Check the Navigator for times that he will be there.
15 There are characters along the way to the beach; it's OK to ride the tram for this. The lines are short and move quickly so it is a great opportunity to see characters without lines. Check the Navigator for times and places.
16 Characters also appear at the gazebo near Cookies BBQ on the island during the day.
17 The adult only beach has it's own area for lunch they often have steaks or lobster there as a special treat for the grown ups. But Cookies BBQ by family beach has more variety of other foods.
18 Dont miss the good-bye late the last night in the atrium. ALL of the characters will line up on the stairs and will pose for photos for you. This farwell party is really nice and fun.
19 Check for photos every day at shutters. Buy a package deal and save $$ if you don't buy enough photos for the package deal they will refund you the difference at the end of your cruise. If you buy a photo and then decide the next day you see one you want more, just bring back the one you bought and the receipt and tell them you want to exchange it and they will be happy to do this for you.
20. You can order warm chocolate chip cookies or Mickey ice cream bars from room service even though it is not on the menu. The warm cookies are available in the evenings only.
(Don't forget the milk for heaven's sake, there's an extra charge for it. Host Mick)
21. Bring 2 white pillowcases or a matte style picture frame in a zip lock baggie with water proof markers and leave at guest services desk and ask for it to be autographed and it will be returned to you the last night all signed by the characters. I also add a card with my name and room number on it just in case their card gets lost. I like to use dark colored markers, the light colors don't show up as well.
22. If you need to change dining times or make a Palos reservation go to Wave Bands club directly upon boarding to take care of this. The sooner you do it the better your chances of getting what you want.
23. If you have kids, leave a wake up call and then let them answer the phone. It will surprise them because Mickey will be on the phone telling them it is time to get up.
24 Afternoon matinees of the shows are great to see. They are the exact same show, they leave out nothing but it is less crowded and kids aren't as tired, plus it makes for a more leisurely evening. No need to rush to or from the shows due to your dinner time.
25. Pop is free in all restaurants and at the drink station on deck 9. But if you order it from waiter or buy it at a lounge or bar you will be charged for it plus a gratuity.
26. Stop by the drink station and grab a drink to take with you to the shows or movies instead of buying a can of pop there. If you want a snack, stop and grab pizza or hot dogs or fruit on deck 9 to take it with you. Again save money over buying a bunch of snacks for the kids.
27. At dinner kids can order from both the kid's or adult menus.
28. No need to book floats and bikes ahead of time for Castaway Cay. They have tons of them. Wait until you get there to make sure you're really going to need the floats or have time to ride the bikes before renting them. We always just walk up and do it at the beach.
29. If you want to do the banana boat ride or the ski-doo (eco tour) I would book them ahead of time. They do often have last minute openings so dont be afraid to ask when you arrive if you didn't book it and decided you'd like to do it.
30. If you rent bikes there are 2 nice trails just off the runway. The first one will have an observation tower. It has a great view of the island and ship. Bring your camera for this!! While up in the tower be sure and look around the base area of the tower. There are some whimsical things to see there too.
31. All the trails have ice cold water in big yellow barrels in wooden framed stands, so there's no need to carry your own unless you want to.
32. Find a cruise meets thread for your cruise and post there to get acquianted with others on your cruise.
http://boards.cruisecritic.com/forumdisplay.php?f=451
--If you have young girls with you, bring princess costumes. Many little girls dress up on the ship.
--If you want the pool to yourself, head back early from Castaway Cay. From 12:30-2pm, most passengers will still be at the beach.
If you like cheese, ask your waiter to have a cheese tray ready for you the next night at dinner. When you get to your table the next night a tray of various cheeses and crackers will be waiting. No extra charge.
No need to bring the big stroller from home thru the airport. Bring a cheap $10 umbrella stroller for going thru the airport.
After you get to the ship go to the purser’s office and check out a stroller. They will give you a pretty good 3 wheel stroller with large wheels that work well on uneven pavement like is found in most ports.
They charge a deposit but its 100% refunded upon bringing the stroller back to them after you leave the last island.
Take a carry-on bag( I use a backpack) and wear your bathing suite (weather permitting) so you can go swimming after your welcome lunch if you get there early. Don't forget the sunscreen! Your bags are delivered to your room later in the afternoon.
I hope that this gives you some new information to help with your cruise