Perhaps a music introduction class where you experiment with different times of instruments and sounds could be good groundwork for making the right decision. I'm a music teacher in Land O Lakes and have group sessions for 3-6 yr olds. In class we experiment with rhythm and ear training, self-expression with diverse musical genres and we play on different percussion instruments including African drums, cymbals, bells and string instruments like the guitar, violin, viola and piano. Every few weeks we introduce a new instrument while laying out the basics for future private instruction. Please feel free to contact me if you are interested in recieving more information and I would gladly assist you. My kids are very happy musicians in class. :)