So most of you know that my husband and I have been having some issues. My husband & I had not had sex in 6m. The other night he came home from work and he wanted to get frisky. I had taken some Tylenol pm because I am pregnant & have sleep issues. It was all kind of a blur. Although I was VERY drowsy, I was more than willing!! Toward then end I broke out crying. I have no idea why. I honestly didn't even remember doing it until my hubby mentioned it yesterday. It really freaked him out I think. Me too kinda. I am afraid that just when he was coming around I ruined it. Should I talk to him or just let it be? Has this ever happened to anyone else? I am feeling like a real loser right now!
Yes, tylenol pm has been cleared by my dr. I have severe insomnia. I did take ambien before I got pregnant. I would not take something without checking with my dr.
It's not just you, and actually it isn't you. Don't you love pregnancy hormones!!!!!!! i think I cry more than I do anything else some days. Just explain that it wasn't him, and that it was no different than when the cute dog on tv or the baby commercial makes you cry and try to move past it.
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I have been married for 8 years, together a decade and we go through spells where sex just isn't high on the list for either one of us. Then other spells where we are like teenagers again!~ ;)
I agree with the do over :) No tylenol PM.
And you both must be aware that pregnancy hormones make you a bit weepy. I used to cry at commercials pregnant. The "pass it on" commercials used to turn me into a blobbering fool. I get ya, Mama. Totally.
Hugs to ya!~
Are you seriously asking if you should "let it be" with your husband? Why is that something that you wouldn't talk about; can't you discuss just any old thing with the person you have sex with and close your eyes next to every night? We would be laughing about it in my house. And then planning the next go-round.
I cry during orgasms on occasion, my husband thinks its funny.
Im sure you cried because you finally 'did it" after having spent so much time..."not"
I'm voting for stress relief. Some people laugh, some people cry. Sounds like you were FAR overdue if you had that much stress built up!
I'd talk to him about it. Especially if you guys had been having some intimacy issues prior to this night, he should know that your crying was out of love for him and the fact that he showed his love toward you the way you've been missing for the past 6 months. I'm assuming that is why you cried. And you should not feel like a loser for crying after sex. I have teared up during sex, after a big fight or when I'm especially hormonal. It's all because I feel so lucky to have my husband, and I know we're connecting in the deepest way possible. You had a chance to connect that way with your husband after several months of not doing so - it's perfectly natural and sweet to be emotional. I cried the first time we had sex after my daughter was born. It was a mix of letting go of all we'd been through with the pregnancy and birth and the actual connection we were able to finally have after so many weeks of abstaining. This pregnancy is worse - I'm on bed rest and have been told sex is out of the question until after I'm cleared once the baby is born. I most definitely will cry when we get the go-ahead. Intimacy is important in a relationship. I think you're sweet, and your husband should know that that night meant a lot to you. Perhaps it will help rekindle what you've been missing :) Good luck - and make sure to take the others' advice of the do-over!!
Im not pregnant and I sometimes tear up if I have an orgasim. All the emotions come rushing out ... that is sometimes one of them. I also will have tears running down my face if it get to that point but dont have one. That's when I quickly get up and go to the bathroom so hubby doesn't see and feel bad.
Yes you can cry for many reasons... mainly when your pregnant!
