K.S.
Jessica, I am so sorry. What a difficult situation. The best advice I can give is to seek out legal assistance immediately. What your ex did was neither right nor fair, and there are ways you can fight back and get your daugher back.
I am not sure what your financial situation is, but there is a service based in Santa Monica for a 1/2 hour consultation with a lawyer for a $25 administration fee (you don't have to live in SM to use this service). They are excellent; I have used this a couple of times when I have found myself in situations where I needed legal advice and was not ready to fork over a huge amount of cash but needed to get immediate advice and get the ball rolling. It is kind of a pro-bono thing; the $25 dollars is only an administration fee.
Call the number; they will put you in contact with an expert lawyer in the field you need. As emotional as this situation is, explain your situation as quickly and succinctly as possible, and be ready with a pen and paper to take notes since you only have a half hour. The lawyer will tell you what steps to take next. Sometimes, you can even break this consultation into two 15 minute consultations so you can get the advice you need, then get your ducks in order, then call the lawyer back and go from there. Good luck to you -- my heart goes out to you.
Also, I would call rather than e-mail; sometimes their e-mail gets backlogged.
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