H.W.
I've had two tortoises. Both, I was told, were boys. Both laid eggs.
Aside from the fact that these reptiles are difficult to sex (tell gender of), they are not 'give back' creatures. They don't give back love. They don't do anything to endear them to you. They can't tell you when they are sick or hurt and they are smelly.
And then they can live for a long time. Do you want to have a pet for 50-80 years? I prefer to be a forever home to pets....