keeping the feet up is a great idea.....but she really needs to look at the big picture here. Jobs come and go....kids are forever. The baby's health, and her own, need to be the first priority....even if other things must be (temporarily) sacrificed. When I was pregnant with twins, I was put on bedrest to avoid premature labor. I hated it, especially since we had just moved and my house was full of boxes to unpack! But I did what i had to do. I felt very guilty about not doing what needed to be done for the house....but what happened was, this was a complicated pregnancy and one of the twins died. The other was born premature at 29.5 weeks. That baby, my son, fought for his life for 6 1/2 weeks in ICU. I had plenty of time to unpack boxes after he was born...between caring for my other child, running to the hospital and pumping breast milk for the baby. When he came home from the hospital, the house was still there, and I found someone to help me (including my husband!). But I thank God that my son is healthy today because of the few extra weeks in the womb, given to him by my bedrest. If he had been born earlier, he might not have survived at all. Priorities!
Please feel free to pass my story along to your sister....maybe it will encourage her to look at things from a new perspective.