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It really sounds like teething and I tried orajel bu that did not work for my kids because they licked it off my finger before it got to their gums and then they were angry because of the toungue being numb. I tried teething tablets and they were wonderful. It is an herbal tablet that dissolves rather quickly in their mouths. As for the fever, I just gave tylenol or motrin. I switched to keep their bodies from getting used to one or the other.