S.; some people do feel this way, my mom was one of them, she would never cover things, set out stuff for next day and then cook it the next day and expect yah to eat it, somehow they have the mentality that its still good, and it cost money and they are wasting money if they throw it away, food should be covered, and should be stored once opened, actually all you need to do is stay on top of it, and put the food away into a container, and then in fridge, its obvious he wont nor does he care if you dont put it away he will feed it to your children, it does not have to be an argument, when one of us fail, the other can be there to pick us when we fail, just like maybe he likes his bed made before getting into it, therefore if you dont care then he should do it, make your household a nice place and taking on an argument that is always there, just means its something to get yah going, the best way to change someone else, is to change yourself, so make sure food is covered and put away, i know how hard it was for me as an adult with my children to go back and live at moms knowing the food is not covered, i took the time to buy her some plastic wrap and wrapped up stuff inthe fridge, which she never did, take the time to care enough for you , and dont worry about it if he does it just help him to see by your example that you prefer it fridged and covered, i totally agree with you , its not food safe, there are aticles on it, if you need to make it an issue, face it you cant change someone who may of been raised that way unless they see the sound reson for changing, it takes time but in time when he sees you came in after him and did some work, he might in time respect that you like it that way, and start to do it, but it wont happen over night, it takes years, so hang in there and continue to be the good mom you are, and learn to do things for you and not be picky when others dont know nor care, helpthem to learn to care, be happy D. s