For Moms with High Energy Kids Only Please.

Updated on March 18, 2009
L.D. asks from Lawrenceville, GA
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I have a very energetic 3 year old boy who gets bored very easily. And because he gets bored easily, I have had a hard time trying to keep his interest for more than 5 minutes. So I am curious to know, what are some activities that have worked for you and your little ones. Here's why I am asking.

I thought going to preschool would be a good thing for him, but I think he is bored with that too. After school, I take him somewhere just about everyday, (like the park, or errands) but I make sure we are home so we can have lunch and put his 2 year old sister down for her nap by 2:30pm. My son recently phased out of his afternoon nap, but he does have 1 hour on "quiet-time". This is when he has to stay in his room and relax. (It is also for my sanity because My day starts at 6:30am and don't stop until about 12:30am.)

When quiet-time is finished, some days my son is ok. However, some days he is running around non-stop. And I noticed while he is running around it kinda looks like he is bored.

I have tried doing "homework". This is where we work on different things from school. At first, he loved it because he got to use glue, glitter, and scissors. But now he seems bored with that too. After about 5 minutes, he starts fidgeting and giving wrong answers to questions I know he knows the answers to.

He was excited about working on the computer, but now when I ask him if he would like to work on the computer, he now says no.

I also tried working on puzzles and board games that are for 3 year olds. The first couple of days he liked it, but now he is not interested in them. And if he is bored, he will bend the puzzle pieces and cards that came with the board games.

I hope this gives you an idea of how our days are. Please let me know what activities that has worked for your little one. I would really appreciate it.

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F.R.

answers from Atlanta on

I have a girl who is two and so my advice may not work for you.She is high energy and because she is the only child, I spend a lot of time working with her. Children learn through playing at this age, so although the computer is a really good idea, it probably wont hold the attn of a 3 yr old boy.
IMO boys are very different than girls. I think that you need to get him outside for even longer periods of time. I know you guys are going to the park, but maybe he can play in the backyard too.

At two, my daughter likes to play in her kitchen and cook me food. And she likes to get into mischief by playing in the sink using up all the soap and lotion.

Then we usually have some instrument playing(toy instruments), dancing, climbing through her toy tunnels.

So I guess my main point is that physical activity with your son and a mix of alone activity may work.

Honestly, being bored stirs creativity and imagination, so let him be bored.

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B.L.

answers from Atlanta on

I am having the same problem, except as of yesterday, mine has started acting out at school and blatantly not listening. She is really intelligent, but has so much energy! I'm sorry I cant help, but I am interested to see the comments and suggestions...Mine likes play doh and hands on type stuff. I totally need a tramploine!!! But I think she would bounce around crazy and hurt herself...she has no control or sense of danger.

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A.W.

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Hi, I have a very high energy son as well, he is 6, but has always been that way. My son however has autism and ADHD, so that does have something to do with his difficulty doing anything for a long time. I have found that when there are things he likes to do, he can concentrate for at least 30 min to an hour. One thing I do is that I have a mini trampoline that I pull out into the living room so that if I am watching something or reading, or doing housework, I can keep an eye on him. He bounces a lot on it and it helps to get him moving, even if we can't be outside at the time and uses energy.
Maybe sculpting clay and tools, books on art projects for kids his age that can give you ideas as well. Since he liked the glitter, glue, etc. something more involved may get his attention a little more. It's amazing what kids this age can do. If he likes role playing type toys, the fisherprice type castles with figures also seems like it would capture his attention.
Lastly, if he does not do any chores right now, give him some daily, easy tasks that will be his job to complete. you could also set up a sticker chart so that if he does his chores or follows directions with his schedule, he gets a sticker for each task and maybe by the end of the week or what ever measure you use, he gets a special treat. I wish I had done this with my son early on and it helps to develop the skill of following directions, which is HUGe for school .Hope this helps some.

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M.P.

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Hi - Have you tried LEGO/building blocks? My son used to play for these all the time. Since you can build different things with them, they are always changing. Just a thought.

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R.C.

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Sorry, this sounds like more than high energy. You may need to have your child evaluated for autism spectrum disorder. Many of these kids are high functioning and seem normal, but this does not simply sound like he is bored.

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